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Yoshi (He’s TPB in previous posts) took some time to do a follow-up to my Open Letter to Corey Worthington Delaney (and it’s follow-up post.) See the bottom for an announcement.

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Hey Corey,

Let me introduce myself, I’m Yoshi, a 20 years old man and although I did not do what you did, I also did some pretty bad things in my life that I regret. I can relate to you, as people realised what I did and hated me for it. I’ve lost my best friend in the process. I wish to give you some advices on how to improve your own life, be really happy with it and how to get out of your current situation. I wish to help you have a second chance and live the life YOU want to live!

Before doing anything, I’m sure that by now, you realised your mistakes. The next step is now to admit your mistakes to everyone around you. A real man, with balls, will admit his mistakes and learn from them. You cannot move on before you do this. You have a chance to change and become a man, a person who leads by setting example. Don’t waste it!

Then, you will have to understand that you live in a society, which believes in helping each other out, in good and in evolution. You are only one(1) person out of over six billions people(+6,000,000,000) but yet, you are an unique person, who had his own beliefs, passions and goals in life. My goal is to tell you how to get there. However, as much as I can assist you by telling you how to get there, you and only you can make the move and realise all of this!

First of all, you need to work on your self-esteem. Believe in yourself, Corey the 17 years ago guy, not in the image that the medias created of you. Yes, you’ve made a terrible mistake and I understand that you are ashamed of it. You’ve got to realise that everyone makes mistakes in their life and what seperate losers from winners is how you face your mistakes. Be a man, acknowledge your mistakes, apologize to the concerned people that were hurted by your mistakes. Most importantly, learn from your mistakes and don’t repeat them! That requires guts, but the relief you get afterwards is priceless. Don’t let anyone tell you what to do, choose who to listen to. Associate yourself with people that share your goals or that you see can help you in a way. Respect those people!

2nd of all, you need to realise that some people want to help you out! Believe me, people know what it’s like to make mistakes and be ashamed. Everyone has been there at one or several points of their life and you will encounter people that will want to help you. Accept that help. Listen to the advice that they will offer to you, very carefully. An example of this is Bianca and Terry, in Big Brother Australia. They are human beings, just like you and are simply trying to give me an hand to help you stand up on your own feets again. There’s nothing wrong with doing things that people tell you to do. Unless they are telling you to do something stupid, in which case you need to call them on it. Also, girls are not evil, don’t be scared nor shy of them, they make great friends and I’ve found that having a girl point of view can be very useful sometimes! Remember to respect people, that they want to be treated just as well as you want to be treated.

3rd point, fix some goals for yourself and find your passions in your life, yet, live day to day, in the present moment. That is, fix some goals YOU want to acheive, in the next month, in the next 6 months and in the next 3 years. Focus and work hard on those goals. Tell people about them, it will help you remember and focus on them. When you reach them, be proud, tell your real friends and celebrate. You want to live day per day and focus on the current moment. What is making you happy right now? What is coming up today and how can you enjoy it?

Here’s a few goals I suggest to you, to start with :

Go talk to people, be loud and clear, don’t be shy of girls. Look people in their eyes.

Take some time to sit down and think on this : Who are my real friends? That is, people that support you, don’t lie to you and will not try to rip you off (On money, friends, job,etc). Get rid of your “friends” that never contact, are not there when you need their help and especially the ones that are trying to make you do stupid things!

Accept people for who they are. Don’t try to change them.

4rd point, waste less time on your physical apparence and more on your attitude.

Here are two things that I noticied when I saw you on Big Brother :

1. Change your haircut, as soon as possible. No blonde, it looks horrible and it’s 100% fake.
2. Abosulutely no pink fur boots. I’m sorry but no straight man would even think of wearing something so ugly and gay. It brings way too much attention to you anyway, which you don’t want right now.

As for the your attitude: Stand up for yourself, don’t be shy, say what you think, defend your beliefs. Look at people in their eyes, when you talk, be loud and clear. Show that you believe in yourself, be proud of who you are. Show who you represent.

5th point, be genuine. Tell people the truth, don’t try to hide the truth, don’t change the facts, don’t tell different versions of your life to different people. People talk and they will figure it out at one point or another. Don’t lie to yourself. You’re Corey, 17 y.o, and what you are is what you’ve done until now. Not what you want to become later in your life. Don’t go tell people, oh I’m a party boy, when all you did was making a mess in your parent’s house. If you want people to respect and love you, you have no choise but to be genuine. Life is so much better when you don’t have to lie, don’t have to make sure that everyone is on the same page and don’t have to worry about it anymore.

It will be tough, but keep in mind what is your goal. To be recognized as a genuine man, be respected and live the life you desire!

Good luck =)

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This will be the last entry on the subject on this blog. Yoshi and I are now moving on to write Milf&Honey together.

Over the course of the next few weeks I will move the youth/teen/young adult entries there as well. This will resolve the problem where I have adult content here and wanted a place to put the non-x-rated things so each content found the right audience.

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