[...] my friend J came over (She is the one I referred to as her in a previous post.) We swapped cool things. I have lost weight and my stuff is too large. Most of my stuff has also [...]
Great video and I couldn’t agree more. She leads by example, by saying what really matters in society these days. Indeed, she’s right and it’s all to your advantage to listen to her.
[...] whole “poly triangle drama.” If you haven’t heard me speak about it, here is her POV about it. Why did I hesitate to write originally about this whole situation as it was first happening. [...]
Wow! Only in this century could we see a woman of Miss Eva’s standards care for such “Coreys” of the world. I want to be bad all my life if it will get me this kinda of punishment, in fact, I’m going to grab a camera and figure how to piss off the western hemisphere.
[...] recently felt kind of dick-ish for burning my boyfriend at the stake for sleeping around. Well mostly I felt bad for declaring to the world that I didn’t want to sharing cooties. You [...]
Had this discussion already with someone who called me a hypocrite for posting this while refusing to accept any and all tributes from prospective subs in the past 3 years. I have never asked for nore accepted alimony either.
Though it would be brilliant to come up with a scheme to beat the rich in order to feed the poor!
I am a lifestyle player and as such only play with those I know well and love dearly. They can contribute to my life in ways that can never be calculated using an arbitrary tool such as money or bling. I cannot forge such a relationship in 1 hour and I cannot fake it either for any amount of money. I understand that some people become so engrossed in their work life that all they have to offer to a mistress is the money they make but a potential sub has to be able to offer me something worth more in the long run.
My regular job pays more and the amount of prospective clients is limitless. It is more practical for me to work more and this is how I have secured the money I needed to enact my plan in the next three months.
I do plan on going to New York but I have entrusted the job of finding me the perfect geeky blind date to a friend there and so I await his suggestion
[...] I just got around to reading The Pursuit of Putity (July 17th.) On the Time.com website the article is titled The Pursuit Of Teen Girl Purity. Maybe Time.com employs CNN’s sex keyword combination SEO expert. [...]
Jardine is a magnificent stud! I know little about him except that he comes of as someone who is pure and passionate about what he cares for. The “All bloody after battle” looks quite good on him I must say. And the fact that he has no tattoos (like me!) is quite sexy. It’s just too bad that he has trained in my neighborhood and I never ran into him
[...] a total n00b when it comes to interacting with them. But I still want a Lion for a partner… if I am going to be with a man, be supportive and work really hard at helping him achieve his Jungle…. And I am in no specific hurry so I will choose my lion well and find one with a confident, [...]
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[...] In the past few years I have bestowed the title of fetishist on many people and even some who did not consider themselves fetishists (like the guy who has over 13,000 mannequin pictures in his Flickr.) [...]
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Making and maintaining eye contact equals divine revelation?
Here’s another you might want to try smiling..Although you have to be careful not be seen as creepy.
here’s another after you’ve made and maintained eye contact,smiled and she didn’t look at you like you were some kind of creep,go over and say something like hello!
Keep the conversation if any ensues positive.ex
Hi,Having a nice day(Belle Journee),Her Hmmmmm!Me You had a nice weekend!Her Oh yes I had a great weekend.Returning a toothsome smile at you because you made her think of better times.
[...] in just to get my metabolism going and toning up. My back/vertebrae really does not hurt anymore. I mourn the loss of my butt. There is a free social fix to this, I can ask all my friends to always tell me my butt looks huge [...]
Interesting. Personally, I don’t think there is such a thing as “thinking like a guy” or “thinking like a woman”. There is SO much variation among both men and women. It’s just that certain patterns are seen as more “logical and rational” and have been idealised as male thinking. That’s my opinion . . . but that opinion is based on my own experience as well as what I’ve learned from anthro. Your mileage may vary.
Sorry you’re going through bad PMS. I remember those days. Ugh.
I remember being in The Bay with my ex-husband and I was waiting at the Clinique counter. In front of me, two guys were basically buying the same woman’s face cleaner and cream I was just about to buy myself. I turned to my husband and said “Now, if I was a girl I would never let my boyfriend go buy cosmetics for me.” And my husband looked at me and said “But you are a girl!” Oh, how embarrassing it was when I inadvertently forgot I was a girl! I am sure glad I never do that anymore
It’s interesting to see how you are the catalyst for so many people’s dreams. This is one of the main reasons of why I think you are an outstanding good person.
While you may do only “10%” of the work, that 10% is critical. I am privileged to be close enough to you to see or hear about all the projects that you tackle on. It is a bit sad that you work in the background, I think that deserve sooooo much more credit.
I’m glad to hear that CJO saw your potential and that he’s now doing his homework haha =) I’m sure that you two will do a lot of great things together and I cannot wait to hear more about the workshops!
Let me know how that new Internet provider is, I’ll probably switch to them when I move out! I’m sick and tired of Bell BS service.
Yeah that’s true, you are privy to ALMOST all of my Machiavelic plans! But I cannot discuss ALL of them here because some are highly confidential and more and more of my friends find their way here!
But I like how I can write my intent here, say what will happen, make it happen and then tell the person in question to come back and read an entry proving that I planned it all along
What a dark post, wow. Yet, a very good one, as you open yourself up and put all those dark and negatives thoughts on this blog, instead of keeping them inside of you.
Now, I can’t speak for girls, because well I’m a guy! However, I think that your presence on the web, mixed with your unique traits and the fact that you are a marvelous and desirable woman explains all the stalkers. What you talk about though is quite, well not exceptional, creepy is the right word indeed.
You doing a “callgirl” at 12 because of a “genius” who was filming on that of top is freaking creepy!
“I think I am more sensitive to issues of appropriateness because I am a pervert.”
Although I don’t have your experience, I also call myself a pervert and I think that we are more sensitive due to the previous situations that we’ve been in before, heard of and because of our extended knowledge on sex and what is or isn’t appropriate depending on the situation.
As for that guy who’s with your mother (I wouldn’t call him a man LOL!) Simply put: What a fucking douchebag. I’m sorry for your mother, you and your family to have to deal with him. As you said though, it gave you a lot of experience at least.
“I have LOTS of insight into guys that I am not supposed to have”
Interesting…Makes me wonder what you know about me that you’re “not supposed” to have =P Then again, I’m selfish when I say that.
“but ALL of it is really useful because It’s all slowly making sense”
What is making sense?
It also makes YOU sound like a stalker who spies on guys. Explain yourself please =)
I also agree, your daughter shouldn’t take the plane at her age alone. Beside security reasons, it wouldn’t be a pleasant experience for her, being alone for many hours, stuck inside a plane. To me, this is like Duh!
How dare he touches you!? Well, my guess is that some people are just like that, touchy and think they can touch anyone that they think they are close to.
I don’t think you overreacted, especially considering your explication on how it happened and most probably why. I think it was the right reaction. In this case, slapping him would have been overreacting for example.
“There you go, first resolution of 2009. Have the babydaddy over on Jan. 3 or 4 and have that really awkward conversation and then take the next even more annoying steps.”
Do know that I will kick your ass if you don’t keep up your resolution
It is a great one and I wholeheartly agree. The influence they have on your daughter and the stress they bring you is certainly not worth what they offer in return (…Nothing?)
“It also makes YOU sound like a stalker who spies on guys.”
I love guys, they are fascinating creatures. I don’t stalk guys I observe them intently and in return I am very open about saying what I see. And that will often prevent me from getting laid because let’s face it guys are not used to positive, negative or even neutral feedback about themselves.
I am ‘too much’ but at one point though I will land on someone who is truly fearless and will provide the challenging above the belt intellectual shouting matches I use to enjoy with The General. This person does not have to be a boyfriend, it could also be a boss or co-worker/collaborator.
Because of my age I have seen a change in the dynamics of men vs women in society. And what I see today is that there are a lot of powers working hard to keep men as teenagers for as long as possible, and, also to make them as self-conscious as women have been for decades (to sell them girly things like cosmetics and quickly-changing fashion.) The other trend is that average guys are portrayed as very dumb or made fun of in the media (or advertising, which is mostly aimed at women.)
I am very happy that Barack Obama is going to be President soon because he represents a very good role model for guys. He is not a packaged pseudo-hero (athlete, actor, rapper), he is truly remarkable for having WORKED at being who he is for 46 years in an academic, leadership and service sense. And he is a nerd. He makes such a fantastic first impression that when I met him I was like “who the heck is THAT guy?” for years!!! And he didn’t have to make a great impression with me, I was 20 years old and minding a museum counter!
I think any guy can develop THAT special something but it’s not developed by playing video games.
“So based on TheBaku’s comment (and comments from a few other people) the buzz is that CJO and I are an item…”
You can’t really blame them. From the information you give out on Fetlife and here, that’s what it sounds like. It sounds like he’s your all beloved lion, that he’s that unique man that you’ve been waiting for 37 years. I probably know more about it then the rest of the world, so I don’t see it that way, but without what you told me and without seeing how you talk about him, someone could easily fall into that trap that you two are an item. After all, few people know you well Eva.
“So I will know that as I am sitting all alone wondering why nobody will make due on their plan to take me out it is because there is a HUGE intimidating Lion sitting just behind me.”
Let’s put it this way. You claim that you want to go back to a monogamous relationship and that CJO is the man of your dreams. Why would a guy follow up on their plan after learning that? To them, it sounds like a waste of time, because it won’t go anywhere. Very few men want to date a woman who keeps talking about another man too
I don’t see it that way, that is, I don’t see a lion behind you. Not to mention, he’s behind you, from 1000+ miles away LOL! What happens between me and you is one thing and what happens between you and your lion is another. I was slightly intimidated by him at first, now I don’t see him as indimidating, nor competition. I actually look forward to meet him, see if he’s really all worth the fuzz around him.
- date and/or sleep with every guy at the same time secretly making each one think he is the only one.
- if asked about your sexual experience grossly under report your experience or number of partners.
My approach to relationships and getting to know someone is unique and I WANT to know how that is received. Maybe one day I will write about how my approach is all wrong! But so far I get more appreciation for being transparent, honest and forthright and in return insight on how men feel about relationships.
I REALLY want to know who would feel it is a waste of time to spend time with me because I also see other people. There are LOTS of awesome people around me ALL the time.
And it’s all platonic until it isn’t anymore and then I will concentrate on that one person.
Thanks for the link. I like it when others notice and write about how everything in life is free if you simply claim it without going through manufactured channels. We live in a life of so many accessories that the product itself becomes impossible to find and enjoy.
“You’ll also learn how your own personal goals can be directly related to helping other people. While you are pursuing your big ideas, you can also make a difference
in the lives of others at the same time.”
Helping others is wildly entertaining albeit more emotionally draining than simply giving to charity. But if you invest your happy capital and efforts in someone who affects a lot of other people (e.g.: teachers, writers, parents for example) it’s like paying-it-forward with more benefits.
Key is finding someone who’s going in the same direction.
From the CNN link:
“It’s time for congress to rejuvenate the sexual appetite of America. The only way they can do this is by supporting the adult industry and doing it quickly.”
What a bunch of rubbish. First of all, he admitted that the adult industry is doing well, due to increasing web sales.
Then he tries to make us buy that the only way America can rejuvenate their sexual appetite is by using pornography and ask for a 5 billions bailout? How sad is that? Talk about a greedy man.
Goes to show that everyone is jumping on the bailout wagon and trying to get a piece too. 5 billions for porn? Are you ****ing kidding me?!
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January 17th, 2008 at 2:17 pm
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January 22nd, 2008 at 10:41 am
Perhaps you should compare to Vivid or DP and not gonzo crap. Not all porn is about drugs.
January 23rd, 2008 at 9:56 pm
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February 3rd, 2008 at 12:11 am
That is so cool! Spoof or not, I love the clothing style
and the guns?! What is that haha! Great find 
February 27th, 2008 at 12:40 pm
so did you really had this sticker made for you? how can i get one?
February 27th, 2008 at 4:02 pm
I made it myself. You can print it and stick it somewhere, that part I can’t do for you.
February 29th, 2008 at 12:51 pm
[...] my friend J came over (She is the one I referred to as her in a previous post.) We swapped cool things. I have lost weight and my stuff is too large. Most of my stuff has also [...]
March 12th, 2008 at 1:05 am
Great video and I couldn’t agree more. She leads by example, by saying what really matters in society these days. Indeed, she’s right and it’s all to your advantage to listen to her.
March 21st, 2008 at 10:11 pm
Thanks for mentioning my blog in your podcast. To my knowledge this is the first time this has happened.
March 25th, 2008 at 2:05 pm
[...] whole “poly triangle drama.” If you haven’t heard me speak about it, here is her POV about it. Why did I hesitate to write originally about this whole situation as it was first happening. [...]
May 19th, 2008 at 1:07 pm
[...] I told my sys admin he was blow-job worthy [...]
May 19th, 2008 at 9:40 pm
Wow! Only in this century could we see a woman of Miss Eva’s standards care for such “Coreys” of the world. I want to be bad all my life if it will get me this kinda of punishment, in fact, I’m going to grab a camera and figure how to piss off the western hemisphere.
May 23rd, 2008 at 12:06 pm
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May 24th, 2008 at 9:46 am
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May 30th, 2008 at 3:37 pm
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June 30th, 2008 at 5:57 pm
Thanks for the mention in your blog. The traffic for my page has skyrocketed in the last few days
Sincerely,
~Ambrosia
July 20th, 2008 at 8:37 pm
“a but of an orgasm.”
That’s must be quite an unique feeling…hahaha
July 25th, 2008 at 10:45 am
So if you did not accept free money why don’t you work as a domintrix to make extra cash?
July 25th, 2008 at 11:08 am
Had this discussion already with someone who called me a hypocrite for posting this while refusing to accept any and all tributes from prospective subs in the past 3 years. I have never asked for nore accepted alimony either.
Though it would be brilliant to come up with a scheme to beat the rich in order to feed the poor!
I am a lifestyle player and as such only play with those I know well and love dearly. They can contribute to my life in ways that can never be calculated using an arbitrary tool such as money or bling. I cannot forge such a relationship in 1 hour and I cannot fake it either for any amount of money. I understand that some people become so engrossed in their work life that all they have to offer to a mistress is the money they make but a potential sub has to be able to offer me something worth more in the long run.
My regular job pays more and the amount of prospective clients is limitless. It is more practical for me to work more and this is how I have secured the money I needed to enact my plan in the next three months.
I do plan on going to New York but I have entrusted the job of finding me the perfect geeky blind date to a friend there and so I await his suggestion
October 14th, 2008 at 4:22 pm
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October 22nd, 2008 at 9:35 am
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October 24th, 2008 at 11:33 am
Keith Jardine?!
October 24th, 2008 at 1:08 pm
Jardine is a magnificent stud! I know little about him except that he comes of as someone who is pure and passionate about what he cares for. The “All bloody after battle” looks quite good on him I must say. And the fact that he has no tattoos (like me!) is quite sexy. It’s just too bad that he has trained in my neighborhood and I never ran into him
October 27th, 2008 at 11:34 am
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November 13th, 2008 at 11:43 am
[...] a total n00b when it comes to interacting with them. But I still want a Lion for a partner… if I am going to be with a man, be supportive and work really hard at helping him achieve his Jungle…. And I am in no specific hurry so I will choose my lion well and find one with a confident, [...]
November 13th, 2008 at 12:28 pm
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November 13th, 2008 at 3:10 pm
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November 13th, 2008 at 3:14 pm
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November 20th, 2008 at 10:56 am
Good luck finding your lion!
November 23rd, 2008 at 12:19 pm
Making and maintaining eye contact equals divine revelation?
Here’s another you might want to try smiling..Although you have to be careful not be seen as creepy.
here’s another after you’ve made and maintained eye contact,smiled and she didn’t look at you like you were some kind of creep,go over and say something like hello!
Keep the conversation if any ensues positive.ex
Hi,Having a nice day(Belle Journee),Her Hmmmmm!Me You had a nice weekend!Her Oh yes I had a great weekend.Returning a toothsome smile at you because you made her think of better times.
Lancelot
November 24th, 2008 at 4:38 pm
This is pretty basic but not enough guys know about it LOL She has more than this tip, this is just the first one.
December 2nd, 2008 at 10:19 pm
That is a BIG change for you after all these years. Good luck and I hope you find what you are looking for.
December 3rd, 2008 at 1:33 am
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December 4th, 2008 at 1:59 pm
Thanks Jacky! XOX
December 10th, 2008 at 10:21 am
Interesting. Personally, I don’t think there is such a thing as “thinking like a guy” or “thinking like a woman”. There is SO much variation among both men and women. It’s just that certain patterns are seen as more “logical and rational” and have been idealised as male thinking. That’s my opinion . . . but that opinion is based on my own experience as well as what I’ve learned from anthro. Your mileage may vary.
Sorry you’re going through bad PMS. I remember those days. Ugh.
December 16th, 2008 at 10:02 am
I remember being in The Bay with my ex-husband and I was waiting at the Clinique counter. In front of me, two guys were basically buying the same woman’s face cleaner and cream I was just about to buy myself. I turned to my husband and said “Now, if I was a girl I would never let my boyfriend go buy cosmetics for me.” And my husband looked at me and said “But you are a girl!” Oh, how embarrassing it was when I inadvertently forgot I was a girl! I am sure glad I never do that anymore
December 28th, 2008 at 6:58 pm
Nails are important. I’m glad you were happy.
December 29th, 2008 at 8:50 pm
It’s interesting to see how you are the catalyst for so many people’s dreams. This is one of the main reasons of why I think you are an outstanding good person.
While you may do only “10%” of the work, that 10% is critical. I am privileged to be close enough to you to see or hear about all the projects that you tackle on. It is a bit sad that you work in the background, I think that deserve sooooo much more credit.
I’m glad to hear that CJO saw your potential and that he’s now doing his homework haha =) I’m sure that you two will do a lot of great things together and I cannot wait to hear more about the workshops!
Let me know how that new Internet provider is, I’ll probably switch to them when I move out! I’m sick and tired of Bell BS service.
December 30th, 2008 at 4:56 pm
Yeah that’s true, you are privy to ALMOST all of my Machiavelic plans! But I cannot discuss ALL of them here because some are highly confidential and more and more of my friends find their way here!
But I like how I can write my intent here, say what will happen, make it happen and then tell the person in question to come back and read an entry proving that I planned it all along
January 1st, 2009 at 6:26 am
What a dark post, wow. Yet, a very good one, as you open yourself up and put all those dark and negatives thoughts on this blog, instead of keeping them inside of you.
Now, I can’t speak for girls, because well I’m a guy! However, I think that your presence on the web, mixed with your unique traits and the fact that you are a marvelous and desirable woman explains all the stalkers. What you talk about though is quite, well not exceptional, creepy is the right word indeed.
You doing a “callgirl” at 12 because of a “genius” who was filming on that of top is freaking creepy!
“I think I am more sensitive to issues of appropriateness because I am a pervert.”
Although I don’t have your experience, I also call myself a pervert and I think that we are more sensitive due to the previous situations that we’ve been in before, heard of and because of our extended knowledge on sex and what is or isn’t appropriate depending on the situation.
As for that guy who’s with your mother (I wouldn’t call him a man LOL!) Simply put: What a fucking douchebag. I’m sorry for your mother, you and your family to have to deal with him. As you said though, it gave you a lot of experience at least.
“I have LOTS of insight into guys that I am not supposed to have”
Interesting…Makes me wonder what you know about me that you’re “not supposed” to have =P Then again, I’m selfish when I say that.
“but ALL of it is really useful because It’s all slowly making sense”
What is making sense?
It also makes YOU sound like a stalker who spies on guys. Explain yourself please =)
I also agree, your daughter shouldn’t take the plane at her age alone. Beside security reasons, it wouldn’t be a pleasant experience for her, being alone for many hours, stuck inside a plane. To me, this is like Duh!
How dare he touches you!? Well, my guess is that some people are just like that, touchy and think they can touch anyone that they think they are close to.
I don’t think you overreacted, especially considering your explication on how it happened and most probably why. I think it was the right reaction. In this case, slapping him would have been overreacting for example.
“There you go, first resolution of 2009. Have the babydaddy over on Jan. 3 or 4 and have that really awkward conversation and then take the next even more annoying steps.”
Do know that I will kick your ass if you don’t keep up your resolution
It is a great one and I wholeheartly agree. The influence they have on your daughter and the stress they bring you is certainly not worth what they offer in return (…Nothing?)
Happy New Year my dear! =)
January 3rd, 2009 at 3:34 pm
“It also makes YOU sound like a stalker who spies on guys.”
I love guys, they are fascinating creatures. I don’t stalk guys I observe them intently and in return I am very open about saying what I see. And that will often prevent me from getting laid because let’s face it guys are not used to positive, negative or even neutral feedback about themselves.
I am ‘too much’ but at one point though I will land on someone who is truly fearless and will provide the challenging above the belt intellectual shouting matches I use to enjoy with The General. This person does not have to be a boyfriend, it could also be a boss or co-worker/collaborator.
Because of my age I have seen a change in the dynamics of men vs women in society. And what I see today is that there are a lot of powers working hard to keep men as teenagers for as long as possible, and, also to make them as self-conscious as women have been for decades (to sell them girly things like cosmetics and quickly-changing fashion.) The other trend is that average guys are portrayed as very dumb or made fun of in the media (or advertising, which is mostly aimed at women.)
I have already written an article about Raising you own Manhood.
I am very happy that Barack Obama is going to be President soon because he represents a very good role model for guys. He is not a packaged pseudo-hero (athlete, actor, rapper), he is truly remarkable for having WORKED at being who he is for 46 years in an academic, leadership and service sense. And he is a nerd. He makes such a fantastic first impression that when I met him I was like “who the heck is THAT guy?” for years!!! And he didn’t have to make a great impression with me, I was 20 years old and minding a museum counter!
I think any guy can develop THAT special something but it’s not developed by playing video games.
January 3rd, 2009 at 6:29 pm
“So based on TheBaku’s comment (and comments from a few other people) the buzz is that CJO and I are an item…”
You can’t really blame them. From the information you give out on Fetlife and here, that’s what it sounds like. It sounds like he’s your all beloved lion, that he’s that unique man that you’ve been waiting for 37 years. I probably know more about it then the rest of the world, so I don’t see it that way, but without what you told me and without seeing how you talk about him, someone could easily fall into that trap that you two are an item. After all, few people know you well Eva.
“So I will know that as I am sitting all alone wondering why nobody will make due on their plan to take me out it is because there is a HUGE intimidating Lion sitting just behind me.”
Let’s put it this way. You claim that you want to go back to a monogamous relationship and that CJO is the man of your dreams. Why would a guy follow up on their plan after learning that? To them, it sounds like a waste of time, because it won’t go anywhere. Very few men want to date a woman who keeps talking about another man too
I don’t see it that way, that is, I don’t see a lion behind you. Not to mention, he’s behind you, from 1000+ miles away LOL! What happens between me and you is one thing and what happens between you and your lion is another. I was slightly intimidated by him at first, now I don’t see him as indimidating, nor competition. I actually look forward to meet him, see if he’s really all worth the fuzz around him.
January 3rd, 2009 at 8:27 pm
What you write is very interesting.
The conventional wisdom on dating is:
- date and/or sleep with every guy at the same time secretly making each one think he is the only one.
- if asked about your sexual experience grossly under report your experience or number of partners.
My approach to relationships and getting to know someone is unique and I WANT to know how that is received. Maybe one day I will write about how my approach is all wrong! But so far I get more appreciation for being transparent, honest and forthright and in return insight on how men feel about relationships.
I REALLY want to know who would feel it is a waste of time to spend time with me because I also see other people. There are LOTS of awesome people around me ALL the time.
And it’s all platonic until it isn’t anymore and then I will concentrate on that one person.
But again… not there yet.
January 4th, 2009 at 10:59 am
Thought that you would like this:
http://chrisguillebeau.com/3×5/manifesto-resource-page/
January 5th, 2009 at 8:31 am
Thanks for the link. I like it when others notice and write about how everything in life is free if you simply claim it without going through manufactured channels. We live in a life of so many accessories that the product itself becomes impossible to find and enjoy.
“You’ll also learn how your own personal goals can be directly related to helping other people. While you are pursuing your big ideas, you can also make a difference
in the lives of others at the same time.”
Helping others is wildly entertaining albeit more emotionally draining than simply giving to charity. But if you invest your happy capital and efforts in someone who affects a lot of other people (e.g.: teachers, writers, parents for example) it’s like paying-it-forward with more benefits.
Key is finding someone who’s going in the same direction.
January 13th, 2009 at 1:39 pm
Hahaha, it’s just to uncanny! Both really cute guys. its not bad to fall in love with someone who is your type!
January 13th, 2009 at 3:10 pm
I am not sure my type IS my type!
Interacting with someone who is (or comes off as) an impossible to please prissy emperor is completely bewildering.
It opens a window into ‘emotional masochism’ that I had never pondered before. It fascinates me!
Also realized this
#1 = 0% hetero (gay)
#2 = 50% hetero (bi)
#3 = 75% hetero (flexible)
#4 = 100% hetero (he says)
Cupid is getting better in the compatible sexual orientation category
I have to finish my work and my planning so that I can indulge in a whole evening of writing!
January 17th, 2009 at 3:24 pm
What do they say in French? “One lost, ten found” In your case, is exactly right!@!!
January 20th, 2009 at 9:57 am
What is “malfunctionned my attire”?! We have to go together next time!
January 25th, 2009 at 3:35 pm
‘Losing’ someone still breaks my heart. I am not used to that.
January 25th, 2009 at 3:36 pm
Should I have written “Malfunctioned my wardrobe?!” I’m trying to be subtle here.
January 28th, 2009 at 9:55 am
From the CNN link:
“It’s time for congress to rejuvenate the sexual appetite of America. The only way they can do this is by supporting the adult industry and doing it quickly.”
What a bunch of rubbish. First of all, he admitted that the adult industry is doing well, due to increasing web sales.
Then he tries to make us buy that the only way America can rejuvenate their sexual appetite is by using pornography and ask for a 5 billions bailout? How sad is that? Talk about a greedy man.
Goes to show that everyone is jumping on the bailout wagon and trying to get a piece too. 5 billions for porn? Are you ****ing kidding me?!
January 29th, 2009 at 1:49 am
Sounds like a fun evening =)
“Oh and that thing I wrote that I wanted to do with him (it’s a secret), well HE brought it up first so we’ll see where that goes.”
A secret eh?
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